Questions, answered
Quick answers about registering, contact access, privacy and refunds.
Getting started
What is Rabt-e-Nikah?
A family-oriented service for adults in Pakistan who are looking for marriage. You register a proposal, our team reviews it, and approved proposals appear on the website. If you like a proposal, you can ask us for its contact details. See How It Works.
Is registration free?
Yes. Registering, our review, browsing and checking your status are all free. You pay Rs. 300 only if you ask for the contact details of one proposal.
Who can register?
Adults aged 18 and above who are looking for marriage in Pakistan. We do not accept proposals for anyone under 18.
Can I register my son, daughter or sibling?
Yes, but only if they know about it and have agreed to publication and to sharing their contact details. The form asks you to confirm this.
Do I need an account or a password?
No. When you register you get an RN ID. With your registered phone number, it lets you check your status at any time.
Registering and review
How do I register?
Fill in the registration form: six short steps and a preview. When you submit, you get your RN ID. Then message us on WhatsApp with it, and we start the review.
Why do I need to message you on WhatsApp?
That message starts your review.
How long does approval take?
Every proposal is read by our team before it goes live. We do not promise a fixed time, and we may ask you to correct something first. You can check where you stand on the status page.
What does the review check?
Whether your proposal is complete, clear and follows our rules. It is not an identity or background check. See the Profile Review & Publication Rules.
What can happen to my proposal?
It can be approved and go live, returned for a correction, or declined. We tell you on WhatsApp, and by email if you gave one.
I lost my RN ID. What do I do?
Message us on WhatsApp from the number you registered with, and we will help you find it.
Can I change my details after I submit?
Yes. Message us on WhatsApp with your RN ID and tell us what to change.
Do I need an email address?
No, it is optional. Without one you will not get reminder emails, so please check your status page in the last 15 days before your proposal closes.
Do I need to upload a photo?
No. We do not collect photos. Proposals show a simple illustrated avatar instead.
What should I write about my family?
A few simple lines, for example the type of family and its values. It is optional. Please do not write phone numbers, links or addresses.
Browsing and contact access
Can I browse without registering?
Yes. Anyone can browse approved proposals for free, without an account.
What can I see on a proposal?
First name, age, height, city, caste and sect, marital status, education, profession, family details and what the person is looking for. Phone numbers and emails are never shown.
How does contact access work?
Open a proposal and tap "Request contact access". WhatsApp opens with the RN ID typed in. We send payment details, you pay, and we check that the payment has arrived, that the proposal is still active, and that the applicant agreed to share their details. Then we send you the contact details on WhatsApp.
How much does it cost?
Rs. 300 for one proposal. If you want the contact details of another proposal, that is a separate request.
What do I receive?
The full proposal, including the applicant's full name, contact number, WhatsApp number and, if they gave one, email address.
Does contact access guarantee a reply?
No. We cannot promise that the other person or family will reply, agree to talk, or want to go ahead.
Privacy and safety
Will my phone number be visible on the website?
No. Your phone number, WhatsApp number and email are never shown on the website. See our Privacy Policy.
Who gets my contact details?
Only a person who asks for contact access to your proposal and pays, and only after we check that you agreed to this when you registered.
Do you verify identity?
No. We review what applicants submit, but we do not check identity, education, job or background. Please check details yourself and involve your family.
Is it safe?
We take care, but no online service can promise perfect safety. Involve your family from the start, meet in a public place, and pay only to the account we send from our official WhatsApp number, +92 311 0654726. We never ask for passwords, PINs or one-time codes.
How do I report a concern about a proposal?
Use the "Report a concern" link on the proposal page, or message us on WhatsApp with the RN ID. See Contact Us.
Can I remove my proposal?
Yes, at any time. Message us on WhatsApp with your RN ID. We take it off the website as soon as we can, normally within 3 working days.
Do you sell my information?
No.
Payments and refunds
How do I pay?
We send you the payment details on WhatsApp, from our official number. Pay only to those details.
Is a payment screenshot enough?
No. We check that the money has actually reached us before we share anything.
When can I get a refund?
If you paid twice, if we could not give you the contact details because of a mistake on our side, or if the proposal became unavailable before we shared them. We refund the fee or, where we can, offer a replacement.
When is there no refund?
Once the contact details have been shared. The other person not replying, you changing your mind, or the proposal not being suitable are not reasons for a refund.
How do I ask for a refund?
Message us on WhatsApp with the RN ID, the payment date and amount, and the transaction number. We reply within 3 working days. The full rules are in the Refund Policy.
Are there any other fees?
We charge no other fee. There is no membership and no subscription. Your wallet or bank may have its own transfer charges.
Your proposal after it goes live
How long does my proposal stay live?
For 180 days after you last confirmed it.
What happens near the end?
Fifteen days before it closes, we remind you by email if you gave one. Your status page shows a "My proposal is still active" button. One tap keeps it live.
What if I do not confirm?
The proposal closes by itself. Message us on WhatsApp if you want it live again.
I found my match. What now?
Mubarak. You do not need to do anything. Your proposal closes by itself, or you can ask us to close it sooner.
Did not find your answer?
Message us on WhatsApp. We are happy to help.